If you have followed my blog and actually read my text posts then you know I am married. You also know that I had a girlfriend. Amber and I are no longer romantically involved but we are still close friends. I adore her, I just was not a very good girlfriend in the end. She is coming over for a crafty, girly day on Sunday. 🙂 I also have an online relationship with an amazing man, whom I will discuss in future posts. I have had some questions in my Inbox about the fact that I am married and also involved with other people. I thought I would address the questions with a general post.
I am polyamorous. I have a primary relationship with my husband. He is my best friend and lover. I am fortunate and grateful that he is part of my life. He is my rock and I look forward to a long marriage with him, full of love, sex and fun. We also have an open relationship and can have secondary relationships within a defined set of parameters. The key has been trust and communication. I am not always successful in the communication area but I work on it constantly and my hubby is a patient man.
This does not work for everyone but it works for us. I am unapologetic about my relationship choices. Marriage is simply a contract between two people. The terms of that contract are between the two people entering it and not a church or the government. I have an amazing marriage and I look forward to growing old with my husband. We actively work on our relationship to keep it healthy and vibrant. I have an amazing amount of sex and my hubby and I are growing sexually and that is a good thing. My other relationships help fulfill other areas of myself. It is challenging to manage multiple relationships but I find it rewarding and satisfying.
I look forward to sharing my continued adventures here.